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Foggy Waters

the 12 Adjustments Program

My Formula to Navigate your Change

Number 1. Acceptance. Sure, you've heard this 1000 times, but it matters.

Once we accept what is

What is, gets easier.

I didn't say easy. I said easier.

So, accept.

Number 2. Letting go.

And you've heard this 1000 times too. But it also matters.

What exactly does letting go mean? Here... It means letting go of the outcome.

Letting go of what you think should happen.

Letting go of the idea that you should know what is best.

So, I guess we can say letting go of your ego.

It will get easier. I didn't say this was easy.


Number 3. Knowing you can't.

If you think you always can, sorry, but you're wrong.

Only God can always, and sometimes even He can't.

Look at.... (fill in your blank).

Once you understand that you can't. Things get easier.

Once again, I didn't say easy, I said easier.


Number 4. Seeing yourself.

Do you take your own inventory the same way you take others inventory? I'll guess not.

Start seeing yourself, stop looking outward, criticizing, comparing, seeing the worse in others, and just start seeing yourself.

This one's hard but gets easier with help and it will make your life easier in the long run.


Number 5. Getting honest with others

 Are you honest with others or only tell them what you think they want to hear?

Make a decision to be honest, stick to it and see what happens.

Some people will fade away, the right ones won't.

Once again, not easy. But your life will become easier.


Number 6. Change your behavior.

Let's face it, if everything was going right, you wouldn't be reading this!

So, consider, really consider your behavior. Are you willing to do things differently?

Start small,

1. Be the first to say you're sorry

2. Be the first to make the call

3. Be the first to make the compliment

4. Be the first to find the good

It's not easy, but it will make your life easier.

That's the first 6 adjustments.... just for starters.

These adjustments are all confidence builders, I promise.

Get in touch if you'd like to learn the last 6 and start making your life easier with my 12 Adjustment Confidence Coaching Program.

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